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Finding your tribe

Your vibe will attract your tribe.

For the longest time I waited for my tribe. Someone who complemented my personality and wanted to do everything with me. Many failures have passed and eventually I just thought fine, I’ll go it alone. Now of course, my best friend, is currently in Australia and I believe she helped me grow in more ways possible. She is to me, the catalyst of who I am today. So when she left, I was left to find a tribe again. I did it the same way I did before. I traveled for a bit, and gave out my true energy, never faking it, and now my tribe is slowly coming together. People I feel comfortable with, people who energize me rather than drain me, and people who are ready for any adventure that comes our way.

Poder en musica

Before I had left for Europe I found Spotify was having a sale, three months for .99 cents. Perfect, I thought. I’ll just make a giant playlist, download it on the app, and use it while I’m traveling then cancel it when I come home. So the cancelling never happened. I still pay for my Spotify, because the music has memories.

When Avicii’s “Wake me up” plays I can still find myself wandering Berlin.

When The Animals, “House of the Rising Sun” plays I’m in the Garden District of New Orleans.

And when Willy William’s “Voodoo Song” plays I’m in France.

Music will play such a powerful role in our lives. Since some of it gets played over and over, by our choice or not, lets enjoy the memories that come with it.

Why New York?

I love New York City with a burning passion. It’s the one place I will never say no to. Why? Because the possibilities are literally endless. If you want to marvel at the arts there’s a million places to do so, if you are a foodie check out the East Village, Little Italy, or Chinatown, if you want something offbeat to do check out the Museum of Sex or Enchantment, both offer a crazy experience.

This time around I chose to enjoy Times Square, the Museum of Sex and the East Village. The Museum of sex is currently featuring an exhibit called NSFW: The Female Gaze and it was one to behold, it showcased works from new artists that focus on breaking gender and social norms. Allowing for each woman to showcase her most natural self. My personal favorite artist in the bunch is Polly Nor, I’ve mostly seen her work passing through my Facebook feed but being able to enjoy her work up close was a great experience. In addition one piece of art in the installment that garnered some chuckles from my mother was Shona McAndrew’s Norah. She’s a large paper mache sculpture wearing nothing but I “heart” NY shirt, worn-out underwear, and a pair of gym socks. The small qualities of Norah remind every woman of themselves, such as her pubic hair peeking out of her underwear and her relaxed posture on her armchair.

After that we chose to go to the East Village to check out a store called Enchantments, it’s known for being the oldest witchcraft, unfortunately pictures can’t be taken inside but I was very excited to get a new personalized candle, it was inscribed with runes, my name, symbols, and my zodiac sign, as well as various oils inside. Mine was made with the intention to keep me safe while I travel. It was a wonderful addition to my home and I’m very happy to have it.

New York is full of wonders as long as you have the energy to search for them. Just remember it is the city that never sleeps so bring some redbull with you.